Healthy Relationships Awareness Series | Refusal to Take Responsibility

Why Accountability Is Essential for Healthy Relationships

Accountability builds trust and fosters resolution. Refusing it creates resentment.

Signs

  • Blaming others for personal actions
  • Downplaying harm caused
  • Avoiding conversations about impact

Impact

Conflicts remain unresolved, trust erodes, and resentment grows.

How to Respond

  • State clearly when you need acknowledgment of harm.
  • Set limits on tolerating repeated avoidance.

If It’s You

  • Recognize defensiveness.
  • Apologize without excuses.
  • View mistakes as growth opportunities.